I’m having a hard time negotiating with my recent former roommate. I’m technically moving out of that apartment on August 25, but she wants me to move out sooner. I had told her that I’d pay all of August’s rent, but I won’t do so if I move out August 15 as she wants. The problem is that August’s rent is coming from my security deposit, so she actually owes me money for rent… as well as for some utilities that I paid for her because she was out of a job.
I’m quite happy now to be living somewhere with people I won’t be having these problems with anymore. I have a nice apartment with no cockroaches, and three nice roommates who are a hundred times more responsible than my recent former roommate and don’t smoke nearly as much pot… anymore.
Lesson learned: just don’t use the internet to find roommates. Yahoo turned out bad (see November 1 through January 1) as did even craigslist. My biggest annoyance is when she posted an ad on craigslist (that’s the ad, go read it) she asks for “no personal dramas” (her life was a personal drama) and that the shared areas be kept “neat and clean at all times” (her mess was everywhere in the house… bathroom kitchen… living room… she left her crap everywhere). She even raised the rent $50. I’m sorry for the sucker who—
The impression she gave me when I met her was completely different… well, I guess I’m just not always a good judge of character. I live, I learn. Have I mentioned I’m happier to be living in a place with a real lease, a real landlord, and [insert third item here because lists always have three items].
…real roommates? That’s the last part of your list. =)
Unfortunately, I’d say it’s probably not even worth the fight anymore. Just let it go and let her keep the extra 10 days worth of money, because you’ll never get it back, anyway. It’s probably not all that much, and, again, it’s not really worth the headache, and it’s no big trouble to have your stuff out by the 15th, anyway. Chalk it up to a bad experience and be done with it.
Well for me, $250 is a significant amount, and worth the headache. In any case, I discussed things further with her, I am “staying there” until the 25th.
Right. It’s been explained to me now. I didn’t realize it was that much. I thought it was just the 10 days.
I’m so glad I’m a pushover and easy to live with …